What is the world coming to?

I am currently working on becoming a sect leader because this is the easiest and most straightforward way for me to get a girlfriend. Think about this for a moment. Becoming a sect leader is a prerequisite for me getting a girlfriend. What the hell? Why couldnt I have just me one in high school like normal people? Why do I have to become a sect leader first? It is so stupid that I have to become a sect leader just so I can get a girlfriend.

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There wasn't a sect for me either, which is why I am trying to create one. (Actually I am trying to revive a sect that went extinct in the 1930s).



You have to think about why there isn't a sect that works for you, and then make a sect that works. If you are unhappy with your sect chances are there are others who feel the same way, so find these people and explain your views with them and see if they agree.

Finding problems with sects should be easy in today's world. In the past the religious community used to serve people wives on a silver platter. But this is no longer the case for most sects today. So for any sect that doesn't do this there is opportunity for a breakaway sect. This was my original reason for wanting to break away, but as I became more serious I started to realize that there were even deeper problems with my religion than this, so now reforming that aspect is not even a focus for me anymore, since there are deeper things I am working on reforming.

So basically: Either your religion is perfect in which case it will give you a wife, or it is not perfect in which case there is opportunity to form a breakaway sect.

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Arranged marriages, matchmakers, etc. Even a gathering where one could be put in the same room as young women helps. Currently the only place I ever encounter young women is the grocery store.

OmegaKV wrote

Currently the only place I ever encounter young women is the grocery store.

Pick one you really like and see if she goes there frequently and whether she gives you signals. If she does, signal her back and eventually start communication.

R.C. Christian wrote

Pick one you really like and see if she goes there frequently and whether she gives you signals. If she does, signal her back and eventually start communication.

You make it sound easy.

Incels exhibit at least one of these (oftentimes, it's a "complete package"):

- tend to be unattractive to women (for whatever reason)
- tend to not recognize or misinterpret indications of interest
- tend to be horrible at the type of communication and behavior women find appealing

It's too many hurdles to overcome. If they succeed at having an intimate relationship with a woman finally, they will probably become too emotionally invested and develop mental health issues.

814GNV wrote

You make it sound easy.

Incels exhibit at least one of these (oftentimes, it's a "complete package"):

- tend to be unattractive to women (for whatever reason)
- tend to not recognize or misinterpret indications of interest
- tend to be horrible at the type of communication and behavior women find appealing

It's too many hurdles to overcome. If they succeed at having an intimate relationship with a woman finally, they will probably become too emotionally invested and develop mental health issues.

This is very true. I am greatly influenced by Fschmidt and I often find myself unable to acculturate into normal society due to differences in world view.

The more “modern” the woman is, the more they will be repulsed by me, as if they can “read” that you are “bad”

814GNV wrote

You make it sound easy.

Because this part is easy. It's finding a woman who's similar to me that is incredibly hard.

I can recognize the kind of woman who will likely to be interested, because I'm naturally attracted to that kind of woman myself (some characteristic traits are introversion, non-flashy/asexual clothing, rufosity, paleness, freckles, artistic and/or scientific interests, liking plants/animals).

Long eye contact (staring), a faint but assuring smile, as well as frequent appearance at the same place at the same time are rather obvious signals that aren't hard to notice.

I've learned to not even bother with other kind of women, they're like another species (probably literally are).

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Definitely natural. They have a somewhat higher chance of turning out to be the good kind. Generally, some reddish hue and a jawline towards the robust side of things are good signs.

Becoming a sect leader is one way to get a girlfriend, but it isn't the easiest and most straightforward way.  The easiest way is to date abroad.  This isn't super-easy if there are obstacles to travel, but it is still easier than becoming a sect leader.

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fschmidt wrote

Becoming a sect leader is one way to get a girlfriend, but it isn't the easiest and most straightforward way.  The easiest way is to date abroad.  This isn't super-easy if there are obstacles to travel, but it is still easier than becoming a sect leader.

It's risky and very much an "open loop" way of finding a wife, given how little time you get to spend with this stranger from an alien culture before making a commitment to marry her.

With becoming a sect leader it's less of a gamble, because the investments you make come back to you. At the end of it you will have a sect that benefits you and your family. There is the risk of becoming a heretic, but my religion in its current state isn't worth being part of anyway so who cares if I am declared a heretic.

Allen wrote

When I looked up Bahai on YouTube it was mostly creepy white people spouting climatard and other woke bullshit, so if you can found a non-fubar sect it would be a desirable end in itself in addition to attracting chicks bored with all be bullshit. You would probably want to have casual sex with a few of them before settling down.

Bahais were liberal for as long as I can remember, but at least there were people capable of critical thinking among them. But 20 years ago Farzam Arbab, a member of the Rockefeller Foundation, launched a political coup against the Baha'i leadership and killed whatever traces of sanity there were in the Baha'i religion and turned it into a Multi-Level Marketing cult for promoting Rockefeller Foundation values. So I am not surprised that your impression of them is that they are climatards, since this seems like something the Rockefeller Foundation promotes.

After being divorced from my mother, my father used to date Hippie women from the Baha'i community (this was back when there were still some relatively young women left in the Baha'i community). And I know he had premarital sex with them too, despite holding a position of religious leadership. This is of course against the Baha'i writings, but without some kind of religious institution enforcing chastity, one would be stupid to remain celibate outside of marriage.

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Yeah like Britney Spears who married her background dancer, who also happens to be a male model who is 15 years younger than the 40 year old bitch:

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