ChatGPT for dating women

I though of a good idea for an invention for helping guys who are incel due to their "personality" to date women. Here are the three necessary components:

1) The input: A microphone attached to the users body, which listens to the woman he is conversing with, and converts her speech into text. The technology to do this exists and is robust.

2) The processing: The text generated by (1) is fed into ChatGPT, and the response is retrieved.

3) The output: The response from (2) is converted into audio and fed into an earpiece that is worn by the user, so that he can recite it.


This enables the user to speak to a woman as if ChatGPT is speaking to her. Why is this useful? Because ChatGPT always gives the most mainstream response to any question it is asked, and women want a mainstream man, a normie. By having ChatGPT doing the conversing for you, you can fool women into thinking that you are neurotypical by the standards of modern Western culture.

The usefulness depends. Are you dating just to get some or are you dating for the long run (wife)?

This reads like a sarcasm.

It wouldn't work because:

- there is a non-verbal component of communication that is unsubstitutable, meaning no matter how good the AI-generated lines are, they always come in effect together with how you communicate them; the impact the words have depends on so many other factors that are mostly "set in stone" or not easily modifiable
- the AI doesn't recognize the context of the communication and generates universal lines, which is - in the dating context - often contradictory to what you want to achieve; it cannot make situation-related witty comments that have connotations only you and the other one can understand; content-heavy lines and encyclopedic knowledge instantly repel women, unless they are heavily attracted to you in the first place
- you're required to communicate in a fast and pertinent way when you date a woman, the processing delay between the input and your presentation would make you look even more off/weird than you actually are

1) If ChatGPT takes care of the wording, this allows the speaker to focus more on things like making charismatic hand gestures

2) By far the most important part of dating women is the initial contact, because this is when women decide whether they like you or not. Context does not exist at this point. Being witty/funny does not matter these days, because it is a sign of intelligence, which women are not impressed by. Instead, women laugh at comments made by a hunky Chad if they perceive that he is trying to be funny. But if a nerd tries to be funny, they don't laugh even if it is actually funny. I admit AI cannot help with looks. But the modern version of humor is just saying things in a funny way in order to signal that you are trying to be funny - the contextless AI responses do not interfere with this.

3) If you are incel due to "personality" this is another way of saying that women do not like you because you are not a braindead moron, which means that when communicating you are probably the type of person who tries to give thoughtful responses when communicating instead of reciting braindead platitudes. And if you are thoughtful you will need time to think so there will already be pauses in your speech.

The only way to substantially change your behavior is to change your personality, which, as far as I know, can only be achieved by having a condition or using drugs damaging your brain. The reverse is true as well - eliminating a condition or substances affecting your brain may change how you act to a degree. It might be the incels either have a disordered brain or a brain that works well but is incompatible with the brains of other people (women in particular). Either way, doing things addressing these issues could potentially have a greater impact on behavior than focusing on isolated things such as trying to look "confident" or making the right movements, because these will follow naturally, if the conditions are right.

I still don't know the extent to which one's looks disqualify someone in relation to how well he is capable of communicating (acting) but since ChatGPT can only offer a "content" lacking everything else, an incel targeting modern women would have a greater success getting drunk and/or high, because this will trigger a primitive aggressive behavior, which these women seem to crave.