Why do people use protection when having sex with attractive young women?

If I won the affection of an attractive young woman, I know for a fact that I would do everything in my power to anchor myself to her. Relationships these days are for the most part temporary, but if I were to inseminate and impregnate her, then there would be a bond between us forever. So why would anyone ever want to wear a condom when having sex with an attractive young woman? Why would anyone ever "pull out" when having sex with an attractive young woman?

I can understand wanting to use protection when having sex with a fat old woman, but with attractive young women it is unthinkable to me. So how do attractive young women go through so many relationships without getting impregnated?

You might say it's because the woman doesn't want to get pregnant so she makes her partner use protection. But then if she considers him unfit genetic material for impregnating her, then why is she having sex with him in the first place?

Because the value of a desired thing decreases/increases in proportion to its rarity - a privileged guy who attracts hot young women cannot fully grasp how privileged he is and focuses on other aspects such as utilizing his privilege to have sex with as many different women as possible without self-limiting himself by unintended impregnation or searching for qualities in women other than their looks non-privileged guys find banal or unremarkable.

Because young non-privileged guys who happen to have the highest chance to get access to the hot young girls in their prime (virgins) out of all non-privileged guys are too naive and inexperienced to fully appreciate the bond with a girl they established, never letting such a relationship progress past the conception phase, which they may regret years later.

Because they're smart and realize that if they manage to impregnate a hot young girl somehow, the chances of experiencing more harm than good in the long term are too high to be considered "cost-effective". Lousy upbringing, family terror and infidelity become quite possible scenarios.


While the opposite situation of impregnating a relatively unattractive woman opens a possibility for a loving, dedicated and attentive wife/mother, the absence of sexual attraction will "bubble up" elsewhere, potentially hampering the successful family model in unexpected ways.

Having a soul mate is so not about copulation.