https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/comments/18ga2yu/my_36f_daughter_12f_now_thinks_her_dad_50m/kczd9ew/If a college football hunk has casual sex with a 20 year old woman, there is absolutely nothing wrong with this and you are not allowed to criticize it.
But if a 35 year old man has sex with a 20 year old woman, he is a groomer, a rapist, and a pedophile. Even if the woman is still happily married to him after 16 years like in the reddit post, he is still a sicko and a dangerous maniac, and his 12 year old daughter is right to hate him.