Unfortunately I exhibit a very strong and obvious physical response upon coming into contact with young, hot women. Yesterday my boss invited me to his church to watch a performance of his wife's choir. His college-aged daughter was with him and she was smoking hot and being in her presence made me extremely nervous. I didn't introduce myself to her because I knew that way my voice tremble would give away that I was attracted to her and hence a "creep". And if I smiled, it would inevitably be a "creepy smile", because my smile always looks creepy whenever I am undergoing this physical response that young hot women induce in me. The last thing I want is to have a boss whose daughter thinks I am a creep because this could potentially be bad for my career. So I just didn't introduce myself to her, didn't make eye contact with her, acted like she didn't exist. This made the evening extremely awkward, and I probably seemed rude by doing this. But I figured it's better to be rude than to be creepy.
Why don't you accept the way you are? Lacking eye contact is natural. Do you really want a "hot" woman who you always have to worry about what she really thinks of you, or a woman who understands you because she acts, thinks, exists like you? Learn how to be selective.