Lack of venues for talking to young women

What does a man do if he wants to talk to young women for the sake of becoming more comfortable talking to young women? Not even romantically, but just like a female friend so that you become comfortable conversing with women? It seems to me like after freshman year of college I ceased having any venues for even having a trivial conversation with women my age or younger. So now talking to young women is a rare event that when it happens it is as nerve-wracking as a job interview.

I think for normies, the way it works is they have a friend group they meet in high school, who they stay in contact with after graduating, and they meet women through this friend group. I graduated without a friend group so this is probably why I do not get opportunities to talk to women.

Getting the opportunity to talk to women shouldnt be so dependent on how well accepted you were in high school. Religious organizations should be another venue to meet young women. Too bad my religious organization sucks and is completely unconcerned with things like this.

OmegaKV wrote

I think for normies, the way it works is they have a friend group they meet in high school, who they stay in contact with after graduating, and they meet women through this friend group. I graduated without a friend group so this is probably why I do not get opportunities to talk to women.

The maximum lifespan of such a friendship is up to 15 years if the conditions are right, while the common scenario is staying in contact with two or three people you meet with a few times a year until they go their own way eventually. The window of opportunity for some reasonable action is only within the first years after graduating.

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Most of the "normies" will have their own families or will be married by the time they reach 34-35. Gaining new life perspectives coupled with decreased interests in what was once appealing during the hs/college days will limit the real-life interaction with them to class reunions or some random encounters.

The non-existing site that offers a good analysis of the modern-day loner/outsider's struggle.