Fitting in

"Be yourself" is a lie. If you want a girlfriend, you have to be generic. You need to conform to one of the categories of mainstream American culture. And if you don't conform, then you need to change your personality so that you do conform. This is what we have been doing wrong. This is why we don't have girlfriends.

Be generic. Conform to some subculture. Fit in. And make small talk in such a way that when you talk to people it communicates that you are someone who fits in. Don't bother trying to speak intelligently, because this is not what matters. Instead, say things that demonstrate how much you fit in. This is why Americans like small talk so much, because small talk is an opportunity to find out how much the other person fits in, because someone who fits in will always gravitate towards making small talk about activities they did with friends.

You need to have a pointless hobbies you do with friends (whether some kind of sport, or "partying", or even playing video games could work) and be able to speak about your pointless hobbies/adventures in such a way that communicates that you are someone with a social circle which they comfortably fit into. Like, tell a story where you mention that you were joking around with your friends while they were at your house playing video games. This is the fucking thing you need. If we all had this we would all have girlfriends. I cannot speak for everyone else, but the main issue in my case is I am just bored by the things that normies are interested in, so I could never pull this off, and it is probably too late anyways.

Oh God, unless I am able to get a girlfriend abroad, then I really need to become a sect leader. I simply will not reproduce otherwise.