http://www.amazon.com/Falling-Down-Michael-Douglas/dp/B001AITGWE/The problem with society isn't just women and feminism. It is a general breakdown of civilized behavior. The movie Falling Down portrays this well. I think this movie is a kind of a litmus test. Someone who relates to the main character is someone who can be reached because he intuitively understands that our society has gone bad.